《孽子》

我的连续剧马拉松，继上回samuel 介绍的港剧《兰花劫》后，最近上榜的有台湾连续剧《孽子》。当然，我还是保持着两天内搞定二十集的记录。

【原著】：白先勇

【演员】：范植伟 马志翔 金勤 丁强 柯俊雄 王玨 庹宗华等

白先勇先生：“在《孽子》中，我主要写父子关系，而父子又扩大为：父代表中国社会的一种态度，一种价值，对待下一辈、对待同性恋子女的态度——父子间的冲突，实际是个人与社会的冲突。”

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范植伟饰演阿青，来自个破碎的家庭，因同性恋性取相而被逐出家门。最后他终于重遇抛夫弃子而重病的母亲。即使是隔着不到一厘米的门帘，重病的母亲更是歇斯底里地哀求父亲不要进来，而他则是不敢吭声，他们都没脸见到父亲。

故事的最后，父亲终于原谅了阿青，只是阿青仍不敢见到父亲，深怕看见他那伤心失落的脸。就连除夕夜回家，也只敢把礼物放在门外。




故事除了围绕在阿青与父子的挣扎，当然也说到了70年代，军事社会对同性恋的不谅解，而导至好多好多的悲剧。而阿青三位好友则有着不同的包袱，不同的理想，可是相同的是：他们都是被家里遗弃的同志。
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庹宗华饰演的夔龙，深情，狂妄，为爱不顾一切。遭将军父亲放逐到纽约的他更是被下了指令，只要父亲仍在世的一天，他都不能回家。直到父亲死了，他终于回国了，可是他仍然还是得不到父亲所谓的原谅。
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庹宗华演技实在是让人赞不绝口，演得实在太好了，甚至让人觉得他有喧宾夺主的感觉。
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其中，剧中老同志的故事与生活，还真让人觉得心痛。人老了，仍然在公园里游荡，找寻短暂的快乐。很孤独寂寞。。
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想一想，要是人老了，却没伴，生活到底会怎样？
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P/S: 当你认为父母不谅解你时，你可曾想想他们可是多么的难过？

Thanksgiving Dinner

It was Thanksgiving when most of my friends left Lincoln and me and a few of others here.

So, My housemate and I joined an American, Helen's family for the Thanksgiving dinner.

The living room

This was Helen's house with her son, Tyler sitting there. Helen was a nice and lovely woman. This house had a great story. She built this house with her husband and moved to a farm house not long after that.

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Family gathering

She missed this house a lot since it was what she and her husband built together. After her husband passed away two years ago, the house was on sale again by the previous owner so she bought it back and moved in, staying there alone.

Helen's husband (picture), not in the mirror (不是显灵）

When she talked about the story behind this house and how her husband wanted the house to be, i could see a lot of stories in her eyes.
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Tyler by the corner

I like this corner a lot. Warm light, comfortable couch, peaceful view...

A warm dining area

Here comes the Thanksgiving meal!!!

Thanksgiving Meal

It's not dinner actually... It was around 1 pm when we had the Thanksgiving meal. Of course, Thanksgiving meal is about turkey...

The dinner was awesome, thanks to Helen, Karen (her sister-in-law), and Kristy (her in-law's sister-in-law).

Left to right: Helen, Karen, Brooke, and Kristy

Time to go outdoor for American family game...

Some simple baseball...

Another thing about Thanksgiving, it was for family gathering. So, family members might just get together and play some simple games, watch football, and take a nap.
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There she is...
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Everyone played better than me... :(

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Board game: Trivia

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It was mostly about asking and answering trivia questions.

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The guy in the middle was Steve who was supposed to be in Houston, Texas suddenly showed up at the door surprisingly when his dad talked about him...

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"My second son, steve is teaching in Houston... Oopss.. no, he is there?!" Staring at the door, surprisingly.

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The women were so surprised and yelled, followed by a big hug. So sweet....
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Another team in the game

However, most of the questions are mostly about Americans.. So it was totally a disaster for me. haha
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Baby?

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Oh, I saw this before we left.. It looked creepy, isn't it? haha...
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When we were leaving the house, I saw Helen was alone in the house. I was overwhelmed with mixed feelings.

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Thanks for having us, everyone.
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P/S: 能够回家，是一种幸福。能够团聚，是一种福分。

蔡健雅 - 思念

蔡健雅 - 思念

近期疯狂迷恋上这首歌。。。

歌词提到

堆积所有对你的思念

把思念推进个黑暗的房间

房间就在厨房的后面

没人会看见

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厨房后的房间，不就是我房间吗？

怪不得，我三不五时被思念袭击。。

真的很喜欢tanya 蔡健雅的风格。。爱死她了。

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P/S: 歌词意境虽美，但却不是我想要的。

婚姻祝福

November 23, 2008，二姐Jean终于嫁人了。。

话说嫁出去的女就如泼出去的水，

让我恭祝这超大盘的水泼对了人，婚姻幸福美满。

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只身在外，无法出席你们的婚礼，请见谅。

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P/S: 要幸福哦~

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断背山

“人人心中都有座断背山”

- 李安

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先为大家捏一把冷汗，别担心，我并没想大聊同性话题。

本人只是十分欣赏和赞同以上的那句话。

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断背山 - 属于自己的秘密

是面对自己的诚实

是不管流言的勇气

是远离压力的放纵

是互相依偎的信任

是遥不可及的单纯

是不想忘记的崇拜

是不敢提起的失去

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P/S: 你找到了心中的断背山吗？ 我找到了。

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再见落叶

那天打工后，心情十分不好。。 选择一个人在大学里走走，顺便欣赏这一片凋谢前的凄美。

最近迷上了拍摄落叶。。也许是想珍惜落叶坠落前最美的一刻吧。。

我大学就是地方大，稀奇古怪的艺术品一大堆。。

好像这个像戒指的东西，除了当hamster跑圈圈的玩具，我真的不知道还可以干嘛。

还有后面那颗铁树，超奇怪。落叶还不够黄。。可以再多些。。

在一片荒凉的落叶中还可以看到红红的果实，的确有点温暖。。

校园难得的宁静。

图书馆前的色彩迷人。。。

一个人坐在林荫道旁，踩着落叶，其实也很写意。

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最近看着路上落叶，不断浮现的感触：

“最美丽的一刻，尽在凋谢前吗？”

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P/S: 有没有什么可以永远不凋谢？

秋天冥想

Taken by Wayne Wayne at UNL, US

落叶

微不足道，你在乎吗？

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我，

千里之外，你在乎吗？

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出淤泥而不染？

Taken by Wayne Wayne in Port Dickson, Negeri Sembilan

The best responses I got for the day..

我：今天不知怎么搞的，放屁放了一整天。。
姐：拿红酒塞塞着吧。。
我：最近没喝，没酒塞。
姐：那就用你的大拇指塞着吧。

Me: I have been farting for the whole day... what's happening?
Nic: Your ass is giving you some signals.
Me: About what?
Nic: You need a dick.


谢谢大家的分析与帮助。。试问被这些人包围的我能出淤泥而不染吗？




P/S: 拜托，快成为新娘子了就检点些。。哈哈。

Halloween 31 Oct 2008

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